Head for the mountains. There are three ski areas less than two hours from Wilmington—Spring Mountain, Bear Creek and Blue Mountain, all off I-476 in Pennsylvania—where you can take lessons in skiing or snowboarding. Skip the group class. You’ll pay extra for a private instruction, but this is a date after all—and not a competition.
Too cold for the ice? Try rollerskating. If you haven’t been since you were a kid, enjoy Friday and Saturday night skating sessions at the Christiana Skating Center.Open skate sessions at Dover Skating Center happen on Saturday and Sunday afternoons. Keep it low-key.
Show your playful side and go sledding. Hit Bear Mountain at Glasgow Regional Park, brave the steeps at Brandywine Creek or White Clay Creek state parks, or schuss at Rockford Park, the epicenter of snow-day fun in Wilmington.
Take a walk on the beach during the more peaceful off-season. The beaches can seem desolate, especially at the state parks. But they are beautiful, you’ll be alone, and, afterward, both of you will be in need of warmth.
Break the ice at the Riverfront Rink in Wilmington.//photos by Joe Del Tufo, MoonloopPhotography
Meet for coffee or hot chocolate. Brew HaHa! serves both at locations across New Castle County—and some have cozy fireplaces. Geek on exotic varietals and pour-over service at Drip Café in Hockessin. Or go French. Café Papillon in Rehobothand De La Coeur Café et Pâtisserie in Wilmingtonoffer hot chocolate and pastries that make delicious first impressions.
Add a twist to the classic dinner and-a-movie date. See a foreign film at intimateTheatreNatNemoursin Wilmington, which shows first-run indie and foreign films. TheCinema Art Theaterin Lewes offers more of the same, plus live broadcasts of Broadway shows and performances of the Metropolitan Opera and plays from the NationalTheatrein London.
Dineby the fireplace atDilworthtownInn. The setting is historic. The food is fabulous. The wine selection is amazing. The experience is peerless. More than 200 years’ worth of guests can’t be wrong.
Ponder the mysteries of love and the universe during a stargazing night atMt. Cubain Greenville. Nothing inspires awe more than a look at the sky guided by a professional astronomer. Visit a public night at the observatory through the cold months. When the weather warms, gaze from the lawn. Don’t forget to say hello to Venus.
TAKE A PEACEFUL WALK ON THE BEACH DURING THE LESS-CROWDEDOFFSEASON.//PHOTO BY JOE DELTUFO,MOONLOOPPHOTOGRAPHY
Make a night of the theater.The CandlelightTheatre, is where each main stage production comes with a meal. The legendary theater is celebrating its 50th anniversary this year. DelawareTheatreCompanyalong Wilmington’s Riverfront is another fine choice.
Is life driving you up a wall? Try it at Delaware Rock Gym in Bear. Climb free on the bouldering wall, which features tricky overhanging “problems.” Or take a lesson in belay—arresting your falls—on the vertical routes (you’ll be harnessed and roped). You’ll soon find out which of you has trust issues…
Eat chocolate. Visit the annual RehobothBeach Chocolate Festival in March. Sample decadent and amazing creations from local restaurants and stores, and feel good about supporting charities. If you want to show up for your date with a box, shop at the iconic GovatosChocolates in Wilmington.
Volunteer. Tapping into your shared philanthropic values is a good way to get to know your date while giving back. Deliver Meals on Wheels or walk dogs together for theDelawareSPCA. Tutor a kid. Clean up a stream. Plant dune grass at the beach or count horseshoe crabs. Drive a senior to the doctor. Coach a mock-trial team. There are dozens of organizations with diverse missions that are looking for you. Check the membership of the Delaware Association for the Advancement of Nonprofits atdelawarenonprofit.org, then call your fave.
Clink glasses together at tasting rooms across the state.
Clink glasses together. A glass of a local beer or bourbon will quell any first-date jitters. Which to sample? And where? Consult the Delaware Beer, Wine and Spirits Trail. You’ll find more than 30 places with tasting rooms where you can savor the best in craft brewing, vinting, distilling— even a cidery and meadery or two. Cheers.
There would be no flowers without birds and bees—which makesLongwood Gardensan ideal place for love to blossom. There is no nook of the sprawling outdoor gardens or famous conservatory that is not beautifully romantic. During your visit, save room for a delicious dinner in 1906 or a casual cup in thecafé. Indoor and outdoor venues stage plays and concerts from raga to jazz to classical by national and international talents. Take a class in flower arranging together. Or attend one of those spectacular fountain shows..
StrollWinterthur Museum, Garden and Library. The galleries of American decorative arts are fascinating, the gardens are world-class, and the house will leave you feeling all Gatsby and Daisy.
Stroll one of the popular gardens at Winterthur, Longwood or the NemoursEstate.//photo by Joe Del Tufo, Moonloop Photography
If dating isn’t scary enough, take a ghost tour. There are opportunities year round at places likeFort Delawareand towns such asLewes, where the Lewes Legends Tour introduces a bit of the ghost stories that attend the town’s founding. But October brings a surfeit of spooky fun during events such asDark Dover Lantern Tours, and tours of historic properties such asRockwood Mansion and Bellevue Hall.
Trains have a romance all their own, so ride in a vintage coach on the Wilmington & Western Railroad. Start atGreenbankStation, roll through the beautiful Red Clay Valley, then stop inHockessinfor dinner, where you’ll dine at the Back Burner restaurant before the return trip. Check the dinner train schedule atwwrr.com..
Cooking together is a hands-on way to get to know one another. Take a class atChefs’ HaveninHockessin.SoDelConceptsat the beach offers regular cooking demos at several of its popular restaurants such asNorthEastSeafood Kitchen.
Visit a wine bar. They are, by definition, intimate. Domaine Hudson in Wilmington holds special date nights. Or visit any night of the week, take a seat at the cozy bar, then get close while you view the list of 450 bottles on the iPad.
Do a wine tasting.Delaware’s four vineyards—Harvest Ridge,Pizzadili, Nassau Valley and Salted Vines—all have tasting rooms, as well as special events such as Harvest Ridge’s food truck and music nights. Or head north on theBrandywine Valley Wine Trail. Warmer weather brings concerts, outdoor movie nights, craft fairs and more at member vineyards. You never know—you could be subconsciously scouting a reception site…
Spread a blanket and chill at one of thestate’s beautiful parks.//photo by Joe Del Tufo, Moonloop Photography
Visit an art museum. We are fortunate to have several good ones. Viewing thePre-Raphaeliteworks atDelaware Art Museumis a window to the romances between famous painters and their models. The landscapes of Hudson Valley School painters at theBiggs Museum of American Artin Dover will transport you both to a different time and breath-taking places. The Wyeth family art at theBrandywine River Museum of Artis stunning, and the view of the creek makes thecaféa charming place for a cup and a chat.
Plant a garden together. Whether you reap the harvest as a couple may remain to be seen, and we’ll skip transparent metaphors about nurturing life, but you might as well sow the seeds. Apply for a plot atBellevue State Park. Or bring a date along while you help in a community garden managed byThe Delaware Center for Horticulture.
You can learn a lot about relationships through horses, so take a lesson together. Facilities such asSunset Stablein Bear offer classes and opportunities such as one-hour trail rides atLumsPond.
Horse riding lessons can make for a romantic afternoon
Float in a hot air balloon. You’ll have a truly panoramic view of the countryside when you fly with outfits such asDelmarva Balloon Ridesin Chester, Maryland. It’s peaceful, exhilarating and inspiring. You’ll be a hero.
Play tourist. No matter where you live or visit often, everything will seem brand new to someone who has never seen it before. So on a date, it will look brand new to you, too.
Play tourist in Historic New Castle, the scene of many a date and marriage proposal. Tour Colonial properties such as theGeorge ReadHouse and Garden, wander through the grounds of Immanuel on the Green Church, browse quaint shops such asHedgeAppleAntiqueson Delaware Street and amble along the shores of the Delaware River in Battery Park. Successful afternoon? Dine by the fireplace atJessop’s Tavern. Or buy a ticket forA Day in Old New Castlein May to get an inside look at a few fantastic homes and gardens.
Do a wine tasting—or sneak away for a minute—at one of the local vineyards’ tasting rooms.//photo by Jim Coarse, MoonloopPhotography
Go for the thrills when you ride theGo Ape!zip line atLumsPond. Harness up, then tiptoe through the trees and zoom along a steel cable. If your datehasn’t been scared off, repair to St. Georges Country Store.
Cruise theCape May-Lewes Ferryacross Delaware Bay. Park at the terminal, then walk on for a round trip of just over three hours. On board, enjoy a drink as you sail. Summer brings live music, wine and beer events, and more adult fun. The breezes are fabulous. The sunset views are amazing. Make sure you time it right.
Go to an escape room. You have one hour to find the key that lets you out. Work together to solve the clues in rooms built on themes such asShawshankPrison and “National Treasure.” Locations includeExodus Escape Roomin Newark, Wilmington andRehobothBeach,Great Escapein Newark andEscape Room Delawarein Dover.
Who says a first date need be a dinner date? Plan a Sunday meet-up at a favorite brunch spot. You’ll be charmed by theFrenchnessof tinyDe La CoeurCaféin Wilmington and the Victorian-ness—and the ocean view—atVictoria’s RestaurantinRehobothBeach.
Tap into your creative sides atPainting With a Twist. Following the instruction of an artist, you can create a memento of your time together. On scheduled date nights, you paint one half of the image, your date paints the other. Visit any of the four studios—Wilmington, Newark, Middletown and Lewes—and paint with your choice of wine for $40.
Catch a romantic sunset over one of the inland bays.//photo by Joe Del Tufo, Moonloop Photography
VisitOperaDelaware’s studios on the Wilmington Riverfront for intimate events.
Book a Swedish massage or classic pedicure at The Spa atMontchaninVillage, one of the most luxurious spas around. (Tip: Do not book a facial. She will not want to have to redo her makeup afterward.) Then enjoy a meal at whimsicalKrazyKat’s.
Run a 5K—and get free beer. There’s nothing like trying to impress your date with your athletic abilities. (Just make sure you’re up to the challenge.) There are special races and race series up and down the state year round.